Those are the questions actor and comedian Yvonne Orji asked herself when she decided to stay in Lagos, Nigeria, on her own for two months at the age of 27. As a young child, she had moved with her family from Port Harcourt, Nigeria, to the United States; after that, the only Nigeria she knew came from summer visits to her hometown, during which she hardly ever left her parents' side."My oldest brother spent more time in Nigeria than we did," Orji tells CNN, and she wanted to experience it more for herself. "It was just like, if this is going to be home, I have to make it mine. I have to make my own friends that don't have anything to do with my parents."She went to her father, she says, and told him, "'Hey dad, I'm just going to stay in Lagos for two months.' He was like 'And do what?' I was like, I'll figure it out."Now, nine years later, it seems Orji has it more than figured out. The 36-year-old is best known for her role as Molly in the HBO series "Insecure."Orji credits the time she took to explore Lagos on her own as big for her, in becoming what she calls "fully Nigerian and also equal parts American."
"Momma, I made it!"
That duality is a major theme in Orji's new standup comedy special on HBO, "Momma, I made it!" (HBO and CNN are both owned by WarnerMedia). She makes jokes about her real-life struggles trying to appease her Nigerian parents, while also pursuing her dreams in American entertainment."My mom, she uses every opportunity to remind me I wasn't a doctor," Orji jokes in the special. "I said, 'Mom, I want to do comedy.' She heard, 'So, you want to prostitute yourself all over the world?'"See more from African Voices Changemakers By age 25, Orji had a Master's degree in public health. Her parents thought medical school would be next, but Orji was bit by the comedy bug after getting a good response during a beauty pageant standup routine.Orji, a devout born-again Christian who doesn't curse in her routines and promotes abstinence, said she was inspired by a message from the Holy Spirit. She decided to move to New York to pursue comedy, or as her mother disapprovingly put it, become a jester. "You know, when there's a question mark or there's an asterisk on your career, they're not able to see beyond that," Orji tells CNN. "[For them] it was like, I wasn't where I needed to be career-wise, financially, and I wasn't married, so it was like 'you are giving us very little to work with.' And I think when you're older, you're just like, is that the only thing you guys could see?"
Finding success and forgiveness
It took about seven years of living as a struggling comedian and actor between New York and Los Angeles, and a couple chance meetings with "Insecure" creator Issa Rae, before Orji landed the career-making role of Molly.Read: Bollywood and Nollywood collide in a tale of a big fat Indian-Nigerian weddingAfter four seasons of playing a high-powered attorneRead More – Source